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Monday, November 30, 2009

"setiap lumrah manusia adalah berpasangan"..

some people might think.. by having a partner, ur life will be complete.. and some people also think, they don't even bother if they do not have any partner, as long as they can live happy and survive... well.. it still depends on the individual it self.. but, naturally, we cannot deny what Allah had already set for us, "setiap lumrah manusia adalah berpasangan"..

by having a partner sometimes will make u feel stress, sometimes it will make u feel that u r really fly up in the sky.. it is still depends on how the relationship goes.. if both are manage to drive the thing carefully, of coz.. the ending will be happy.. but for some that not drive it carefully, this is where all the painful come in..

in relationship, TRUST is the important thing.. if u cannot TRUST ur partner, there will be many problems occurs.. as a partner, you also must show something that can make sure or ensure that ur partner will trust you.. what i mean is, by showing how serious u r in the relationship.. beside trust, PATIENCE is another thing.. every relationship will have the UP and DOWN situation.. you have to be very patience and think rationally.. it is not a correct way to just make a STUPID or NONSENSE decision just bcoz u cannot handle it.. even though u r facing many problem around you or inside your mind.. you have to manage two different thing if u r having a relationship.. the RESPONSIBLE is by both side.. RESPECT is also another element.. you have to RESPECT your partner.. and the most important thing of all is.. ACCEPT YOUR PARTNER AS WHAT THEY ARE.. DON'T TRY TO COMPARE YOUR PARTNER WITH OTHER (ur ex, ur friend or etc).. you cannot change ur partner or you might need a time to change it.. but.. u have to know.. how to CONTROL the situation.. always remember every human are not PERFECT.. terimalah mereka seadanya...

always remember.. when u r in a relationship, u have to be BRAVE to adapt what ever things that will come either it is good or it is bad...

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